Sources say Mary J Blige's estranged husband Kendu had a long term affair with his assistant.

Now we know a little more about what sparked the divorce. Kendu says the stress of the divorce is taking a mental and physical tole on his body, so much to where he has been hospitalized. Our question is why? Its been reported that Kendu checked out of the marriage somewhere around 2004 or 2005 and began the affair with his assistant. Sounds like he keeps finding more ways to get MORE of Mary's money. Good try!!